Life has a Meaning… When you Live for Others!

Looking at the mighty oak tree, one would doubt that it was once just a small seed that decided to open up.
Beautiful lines that I came across recently…
मिटा दे अपनी हस्ती को गर कुछ मर्तबा  चाहिए
कि दाना खाक में मिलकर, गुले-गुलजार होता है! 
Each seed sacrifices its shell to become a plant that will spawn hundreds of seeds in the future, thus ensuring a larger than life presence. This is very true in case of humans as well, where a simple act of kindness done out of turn has the propensity to trigger an avalanche of kindness activities!
Like a home maker dedicating herself for the betterment of the family or a dedicated teacher motivating hundreds of students to make their futures bright, a hard working cook spending hours in the heat and grime of the kitchen to ensure people don’t go hungry, or the soldier at the border dedicating himself for the sake of the nation. All these individuals, in one way or the other, have sacrificed themselves for the greater good.
Though there is learning when you live for yourself, but life has a meaning when you live for others!

Change Happen When You Change!

To achieve great things, you must be ready to upgrade the current you to a new version, for Change happen when you Change! 
We always use the phrases – a new me, a new year, a new way of life and so on. Holding onto the old selves may not prove to be the ideal way for someone wishing to change. Just as the farmland has to be cleared to make way for the new crop to be sown, we will have to step out of our comfort zones and destroy the old self to become a new person. The old habits and the old behaviour will do little to enable a new way of life.
Change happens when you change! 
If you are not happy with your job, work on your resume and start looking for a different job. If you are not happy in your relationship, come out of it and start living for yourself! If you are not happy with your current house, decorate it, change it, give it a new shape!
If you are going through tough time, step out, meet people, travel, experience, no body can change it for you! You are the one who has to take the right step to make your life better!
You are the one to make change happen!
Change starts with us, when we start to change!
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Physical Accidents vs. Emotional Accidents

Emotional Vs Physical accidents!
A limp, a fractured arm, a band-aid here and a bruise there – typical indicators of an accident. We all have met with such accidents (of varying degrees!) at one point or another in our life.
Pausing to think, are physical accidents the only ones? What about the sinking feeling in our hearts, what about the feeling where the whole world seems to be coming crashing down while you stand? They certainly make the case for what I would term as Emotional Accidents.
Points of comparison between Physical and Emotional Accidents:
1. No visible scars in Emotional Accidents – a swollen eye and a drooping body language may be the only tell tale signs
2. While physical accidents may involve strangers or unfamiliar places, the emotional accidents are predominantly from the known individuals – death of a beloved person, departure of a loved one, the back-stabbing from a trusted one. All these cut deeper.
3. Some physical accidents heal quickly while others take time and may leave no traces. Some may even have an impact for life like a permanent limp or a scar. Emotional accidents keep churning you from inside based on their severity. You may be distracted momentarily, but when the right time strikes, prepare to be deluged by thoughts if you are weak, leading to additional cycles if depression and self-doubt.
4. You may not even realise when an emotional accident happens. For example, you may have your dreams and ideas shot down as people around you are not able to identify with them. The effects unfold in the form of low self-esteem, reduced confidence and self-doubt.
The best part of emotional accidents is that you can identify them, and the moment you start realising that you are in such a situation, you can consciously control it and greatly dampen the effect.
You must have heard old people saying that fever is good because it will improve your immunity. Similarly, every emotional accident will contribute towards your EQ.
(D)iversion, (E)xpression, (A)cceptance and (L)ove – DEAL is the way to Deal with it!
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Connect & Share!

Today, whenever we want to know about something, all we do is take our device (mobile, desktop, laptop..) and open google. We enter our search term and voila! we obtain the information we seek from so many sources!

All this happens in a matter of seconds! We learn from unknown individuals who have shared their knowledge for the world to learn!

So, how did the internet come to being? In the 1950, when the electronic computers started getting into the picture, individuals started creating more and more information on their system. But, they could not share the knowledge! Then they started connecting the systems – one computer at a time to create a network of computers that could freely exchange information. Houses, districts, cities, countries and finally continents – today you have the complete world connected!

 

In today’s knowledge based economy, information is the currency – by helping others learn, we learn along with them as well. From the simplest of words to mathematics and general knowledge, by sharing we all learn more!

Every one of us has the ability to teach. Each one of us has the ability to make an individual understand the concepts and information that we know.

Each one of us is a teacher as well as student all through our lives.

Everyday, we learn something new. Sometimes it is on relationships, sometimes on manners, sometimes on communication, sometimes about the world, sometimes about technology and so on. The moment you start teaching or explaining the concepts to someone else, you will see that you are getting much stronger in that concept and you acquire a deeper level of knowledge.

It is said that – “If you can simplify the concept so that your 90 years old grandma can understand it, then you have truly mastered it!”

So, don’t be afraid – teach the world what best you know and receive with open arms, all that the world has to teach you!

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Imperfections are Fun!

The all too familiar tadak-tadak dhadak-dhadak sound on a train travel – who doesn’t love it! For those train travel aficionados like me, this even is a lullaby that we miss while on a flight or a bus! Ever wondered the source of that sound? The wheels on the carriage of a train are standard fixture. The railway track is nothing but a series of connected rails. When the wheels move from one rail to another, they pass over the gaps between the rails and this creates the soothing tadak-tadak dhadak-dhadak. Faster rhythm when the train is faster and slower rhythm when the speed is slower!

Imagine how the journey would have been without this sound — like you are in a vacuum with only the landscapes whizzing past. Monotonous. Imperfections of the track can be a good thing! 

How would it be if we had a good rain and nothing to show for it? All the water drains away without a trace and the land dries up — would you still be able to appreciate the rain? The puddles in which we jump, play and watch the water being splashed on unsuspecting motorists and pedestrians actually are a source of joy and act as a remnant of the rain. They bring about a few laughs, help recollect special moments and emphasise on the point that life need not always be perfect — the imperfections of the path can actually result in something joyous! 

 Ever since childhood, we have been filling up one consistent field across forms — mark of identification. If not for the scar, the mole, the extra finger — what would have helped set you apart?

How would life be without the music, the drama, the challenges, the special moments? Monotonous. Let a few puddles, gaps and scars be there — enjoy the imperfections!

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Love Yourself!

 

Love your Smile, deal with your Sadness, love your Happiness, handle your Sorrows, enjoy your Joys, enjoy your Pains, pat yourself for your Leaps, Own your Mistakes, Celebrate your Success, Learn from your Failures! No one is Perfect, so whatever the Situation is, never forget to Smile, to be Happy, to Enjoy and to live Every Moment of Life!

We were born to be Real, not to be Perfect!

 

Self Belief – The Utmost Vital Step

‘Self belief’ is the utmost vital step.
If you don’t believe in yourself, how do you expect anyone else to believe in you?
If you want to achieve greatness, you first have to believe that you are capable of it. Know that there is no one else, but you, who can attain what you want to do.
As ‘God helps those, who help themselves’, so keep an optimistic approach towards life, try to find positivity in each & every situation and you will come out as a Winner!  🙂