What can a 50-day pup teach you?
Behave as if you own the place!
Laila went around the house sniffing her way through. Pausing every now and then to wag her tail and look back at us. If she had known the metric units, I am sure she could have given the dimensions of our house! Once she completed this complete survey, she then took the air of the mistress of the house and would strut proudly with her chest out! Every object in the house was now hers and we had to get her permission to take it back from her. And yes, anything that fell to the floor was her property first!
Love is unconditional:
We had no expectations except companionship. The poo-picking, the pee-wiping and regular feeding were actually chores that we did not have a problem with at all! With her tail wagging nineteen to the dozen, she would warmly welcome us at the doorstep, though we had left her alone for 3-4 hours. She would patiently follow us through the house, always at the heels without asking for anything. She would bite my saree just to grab my attention when I used to get busy with my work. She cuddled next to us for going to sleep and licked us until we rolled in laughter from the tickles we got!
Though a pup, she was easy to potty train. Poo/peeing on the furniture was a strict no-no and the balcony was the spot for her biological waste. She developed this alarm system of wriggling her body followed by a short nose based search and a short shrill bark – that meant we had to let her down. If she was on the ground, she needed no prodding and used to go about her business (except when it was too cold!). The best part was the regularity established. She had to have her Cerelac Stage 1 by 7:00 AM, followed by meals at 10:30 AM, 2:00 PM, 5:30 PM, 9:00 PM. If we ran late, we were reminded neatly by her strutting to the kitchen and back and the quick nips on our ankles and toes! If she wanted to pee/poop in the middle of the night, she just used to wriggle against us and whine a bit so that we woke up and let us down. Once done, she used to stand on her hind legs and give us a bark to ensure we lifted her onto the bed.
When you are teething, the whole world is a teether!
Be it the wooden legs of a stool, or my new Levi’s, or the chew toys or even our fingers and toes, Laila used every option to better her tooth growth. Every opportunity was utilized to grow. The more the variety, the faster the experience and the growth.
(D)iversion, (E)xpression, (A)cceptance and (L)ove – DEAL is the way to Deal with it!
Today, whenever we want to know about something, all we do is take our device (mobile, desktop, laptop..) and open google. We enter our search term and voila! we obtain the information we seek from so many sources!
All this happens in a matter of seconds! We learn from unknown individuals who have shared their knowledge for the world to learn!
So, how did the internet come to being? In the 1950, when the electronic computers started getting into the picture, individuals started creating more and more information on their system. But, they could not share the knowledge! Then they started connecting the systems – one computer at a time to create a network of computers that could freely exchange information. Houses, districts, cities, countries and finally continents – today you have the complete world connected!
In today’s knowledge based economy, information is the currency – by helping others learn, we learn along with them as well. From the simplest of words to mathematics and general knowledge, by sharing we all learn more!
Every one of us has the ability to teach. Each one of us has the ability to make an individual understand the concepts and information that we know.
Each one of us is a teacher as well as student all through our lives.
Everyday, we learn something new. Sometimes it is on relationships, sometimes on manners, sometimes on communication, sometimes about the world, sometimes about technology and so on. The moment you start teaching or explaining the concepts to someone else, you will see that you are getting much stronger in that concept and you acquire a deeper level of knowledge.
It is said that – “If you can simplify the concept so that your 90 years old grandma can understand it, then you have truly mastered it!”
So, don’t be afraid – teach the world what best you know and receive with open arms, all that the world has to teach you!
The all too familiar tadak-tadak dhadak-dhadak sound on a train travel – who doesn’t love it! For those train travel aficionados like me, this even is a lullaby that we miss while on a flight or a bus! Ever wondered the source of that sound? The wheels on the carriage of a train are standard fixture. The railway track is nothing but a series of connected rails. When the wheels move from one rail to another, they pass over the gaps between the rails and this creates the soothing tadak-tadak dhadak-dhadak. Faster rhythm when the train is faster and slower rhythm when the speed is slower!
Imagine how the journey would have been without this sound — like you are in a vacuum with only the landscapes whizzing past. Monotonous. Imperfections of the track can be a good thing!
How would it be if we had a good rain and nothing to show for it? All the water drains away without a trace and the land dries up — would you still be able to appreciate the rain? The puddles in which we jump, play and watch the water being splashed on unsuspecting motorists and pedestrians actually are a source of joy and act as a remnant of the rain. They bring about a few laughs, help recollect special moments and emphasise on the point that life need not always be perfect — the imperfections of the path can actually result in something joyous!
Ever since childhood, we have been filling up one consistent field across forms — mark of identification. If not for the scar, the mole, the extra finger — what would have helped set you apart?
How would life be without the music, the drama, the challenges, the special moments? Monotonous. Let a few puddles, gaps and scars be there — enjoy the imperfections!